9. Forget About Closure
People always talk about closure. They talk about how much they need it, what life will be like once they have it, and what their ex needs to do to give it to them. But the idea of closure is a myth. It is only a distraction that keeps you stuck in an unhealthy pattern. Closure is not something that someone needs to give you — it is something that you must give to yourself. Arrive at your own deductions based on the information you have. This will be good enough.